Your Attract What You Are !

Tonle Sap Lake - Cambodia

You Attract What You Are ~ Jim Rohn
To attract attractive people, you must be attractive.
To attract powerful people, you must be powerful.
To attract committed people, you must be committed.
Instead of going to work on them, you go to work on yourself.
If you become, you can attract.

物以类聚，人以群分，通常我们是怎样的人，就会参跟同样思维和性格的人；因为这样我们才会觉得自在，安心。这就是所谓的“安全堡垒”(comfort zone).

但自从做了保险之后，因为有了不同的客户群，见识也广了很多， 更有机会了解不同的生活背景和 层次的人。不同的人群，有不同的象征， 不同的生活态度。 我发觉，构成人有贵贱贫富之分，最大的差别是在于思维模式的“大小”，对事物的积极性看法， 更重要的是行动量了。

想起去年到柬埔寨旅游，看到那里很贫穷，很想捐款什么的。。。但，我想如果这样做，我可以捐多少呢？我有限的金钱又可以救到多少户人家？还可以帮得多少次？！

金钱上的资助只是可以有限的帮助他们而已，而读书，有知识才可以改变他们未来的命运。。。

所谓“人比人，气死人”，人与人之间，真得是无法比较，比上不足，比下有余。先天的因素和环境，我们不能，也无法改变，但后天的命运却掌握在自己的手里，所谓“一命，二运，三风水, 四读书, 五公德”就是这个意思了！

"Impossible" = I m Possible

Visualize the impossible ~ Cherie Carter-Scott
Ordinary people believe only in the possible.
Extraordinary people visualize not what is possible or probable, but rather what is impossible. And by visualizing the impossible, they begin to see it as possible.

* Muhammad Ali ~ The man who has no imagination has no wings.
* Jonathan Swift ~ Vision is the art of seeing the invisible.
* Winston Churchill ~ An optimist sees the opportunity in very difficulty.

Attitude

Attitude is Everything
~ Bernard Edmonds

To dream anything that you want to dream:
That is the beauty of human mind.

To do anything that you want to do:
That is the strength of the human will.

To trust yourself to test your limits:
That is the courage to succeed.


* Don’t limit your challenge, challenge your limits.
* Minds are like parachutes; they work best when open (Thomas Dewar)
* If you can dream it, you can do it. (Walt Disney)
* You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.Every great achievement was once considered impossible.

Joke of the Day - Marriage

A man and woman had been married for more than 60 years. They had shared everything. They had kept no secrets from each other except that the little old woman had a shoe box in the top of her closet that she had cautioned her husband never to open or ask her about.

For all of these years, he had never thought about the box, but one day the little old woman got very sick and the doctor said she would not recover. In trying to sort out their affairs, the little old man took down the shoe box and took it to his wife's bedside. She agreed that it was time that he should know what was in the box. When he opened it, he found two crocheted dolls and a stack of money totaling $95,000. He asked her about the contents.

"When we were to be married," she said, "my grandmother told me the secret of a happy marriage was to never argue. She told me that if I ever got angry with you, I should just keep quiet and crochet a doll." The little old man was so moved; he had to fight back tears. Only two precious dolls were in the box. She had only been angry with him two times in all those years of living and loving. He almost burst with happiness. "Honey," he said, "that explains the dolls, but what about all of this money? Where did it come from?" "Oh," she said, "that's the money I made from selling the dolls."

A Prayer.......
Dear Lord, I pray for Wisdom to understand my man;
Love to forgive him;
And Patience for his moods;
Because Lord,
if I pray for Strength, I'll beat him to death because I don't know how to crochet.

Our Thoughts Determine Our Destiny

Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Choose your words, for they become actions.
Understand your actions, for they become habits.
Study your habits, for they become character.
Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny.
~by Frank Outlaw.


Thoughts -> Words -> Actions -> Habits -> Character -> Destiny !